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New Zealand Etiquette

You will find that New Zealanders are generally very friendly, obliging and polite.  In turn, it is expected that visitors behave in kind.  Rude or demanding behaviour is not appreciated. Below is a brief guide to New Zealand etiquette. Below is some basic etiquette for dining out in New Zealand restaurants, and for visiting Maori meeting houses.

Dining Out in New Zealand

Tipping

It is not conventional to tip in New Zealand and restaurants do not add service charges to their bills. In the case of exceptional service a tip may be warranted, though it is not generally expected. 

Dress Code

New Zealanders are generally laid back when it comes to dining.  Most bars and restaurants require tidy dress, but very few require suits and ties.

BYO

Some restaurants are “BYO”.  This is an acronym for “Bring Your Own” – meaning it is acceptable to bring your own wine (and occasionally beer). Generally a small corking fee is charged.

Maori Culture & Marae Protocol

As a tourist you may wish to visit and take photos of Maori landmarks or buildings. This is generally acceptable, as long as you first consult with the community and elders associated with the landmark or building.

Always remember:

  • Many Maori sites are Tapu (sacred).  Areas such as burial grounds are particularly Tapu and not to be touched.
  • It is not acceptable to sit on surfaces used for eating or food preparation.
  • Food is not consumed inside the meeting house (Wharenui).
  • Footwear is always removed before entering the meeting house.
  • Marae (meeting grounds) are not tourist attractions - they are a vital and extremely sacred part of Maori life.  Always ask permission before entering a marae.
Marae Protocol

Another great option whilst in New Zealand is to partake in an organised Marae visit.  Here you will experience a traditional welcome (powhiri) and learn about Maori protocols, culture and mythology.

A marae visit usually follows this structure:

Powhiri (Formal Welcome)

The formal welcome begins with a wero (challenge).  During the wero a host warrior will challenge the guests (manuhiri). Carrying a spear (taiaha), the warrior will lay down a token for the guests to pick up - indicating they come in peace.

A group of host kuia (women) then perform a karanga (chant) of welcome. Women from the group of guests in turn respond as they move onto the marae

Whaikorero (Speeches of Welcome)

Once inside the wharenui (meeting house), mihimihi (greetings) and whaikorero (speeches) are made. Waiata (songs) may also be sung.

After greeting the hosts with a hongi (traditional touching of noses) the guests will then present a koha (gift) to the hosts.

After the formal greetings kai (food) is shared.

Learn more about Maori Culture

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